If Ben had any concept of patience, they'd be living in a different galaxy, probably. The New Republic would be proud and strong, Han Solo would be happily married, and the Jedi would be thriving. So it goes.

"I don't think she understands that she is."

With no affinity for the Force himself, Han is really not cut out to be training her in that vein. He's pretty sure he needs to start doing it, though. Maybe he can secretly ask Ben for pointers.