"My fight with Rey and the reasons behind it." At least some of the reasons were childish. She hasn't really gone into that with him, has she? He knew they fought and that he was the topic at least.

"And when I ran away" sometimes literally "for a couple of days while we were at Q'dar." Another brush of her thumb. She isn't running now.

"Maybe more sabacc games and just time together. You both have a lot of catching up to do." Maybe a setting like this will help too. As much as she thinks the Falcon is good for Ben it does help trap him in his past instead of showing him as he is. It must do the same to Han.